I’m A TWO!!!

I’m a Defender, who loves Quality Time, and I’m a Helper.  These are the results of my Myers Briggs, Love Language, and Enneagram personality tests.  

I’m a two wing one on the Enneagram test.  Read on to find out more about most two’s.  Not all of these apply, but a lot of these do explain me well!  

 

TWO – The Helper/The Servant

-When it comes to taking care of others, it’s hard to say no.

–Great listener and remembers stories.

–Anxious to overcome misunderstandings in relationships

-Drawn to influential or powerful people.

-Know what others need/want.

-People you don’t know share deep stuff about themselves with you

-People who love me should already know what I need

-Need to be acknowledged and appreciated for contributions

–More comfortable giving than receiving 

-Like home to feel safe and welcoming for family and others

-Care great deal what people think of me

-Want others to think I love everyone even though I don’t

-When those who love me do something unexpected, I love it

-When others ask for help, it makes me feel valuable

-When asked what’s needed, I have no idea how to answer

-When tired, I often feel I am taken for granted

-Emotions can feel over the top

-Feel angry and conflicted when my needs conflict with others

?? It’s hard to watch movies… find it unbearable to watch people suffer….worry a lot about being forgiven when making mistakes

Healthy twos:
Name own needs and feelings without losing relationships
Love well and care for others
Have appropriate boundaries
Create a comfortable and safe space to others
Loving and lovable
Aware of true self

-Most caring, kind, upbeat, tender hearted people on earth. 

-Radiate love and spirit

–First responders and last to leave.

?? Most sensitive to criticism.

 
-Need to be needed. 

-Present a cheerful/likable image for others to like them

–Words of affirmation are important

-Pride is deadly sin and lingers in shadows of our hearts.

-Give impression they don’t have needs of their own.

-People would be lost without me

–Hard not to give payback when I know what others need

-Can’t imagine asking others to lend me a hand

–Rarely ask for help and don’t know how to receive it

-Inflated view of power, independence and value of others 

-Twos fear that acknowledging their needs would end in fear and shame and humiliation – Not always conscious of it however. 

–Want love, appreciation and attention without having to ask for it

-Touchy feely galore!!!

–Twos are always washing dishes, scrubbing floor, doing things every second. Self sacrificing. Must recharge at some point though.

-Afraid people will ditch them when they can stand on their feet. Once done needing me, they will be gone.

 

-Twos don’t have to be needed but need to be wanted.

–Sense what others are feeling.  Average twos have ability to sense and help others. Don’t have to tell them, they just know. 

-Self worth relies on gratitude and appreciation from giving to others. A burnt out two may have an outburst when feeling like taken for granted. 

-Warm and generous.

-Aware of everyone’s feelings. Never assume that they know their own needs. Press them to figure out their own needs.  They will be sensitive or emotional.

Relationships:
Mean EVERYTHING to them
Most interpersonal
Touchy feely
Easily move toward people

Work:
Play second in command
Happy to have power behind the throne
Interpersonal skills
Extroverts
Build community by remembering things
Optimistic
Too much criticism will crush them

Wing: 1

servant
Doing things properly
Dependable
Responsible
More aware of emotional needs
Less trusting
Expect a bit more in return