I'm a Defender, who loves Quality Time, and I'm a Helper.  These are the results of my Myers Briggs, Love Language, and Enneagram personality tests.  

I'm a two wing one on the Enneagram test.  Read on to find out more about most two's.  Not all of these apply, but a lot of these do explain me well!  

TWO - The Helper/The Servant

-When it comes to taking care of others, it's hard to say no.

-Great listener and remembers stories.

-Anxious to overcome misunderstandings in relationships

-Drawn to influential or powerful people.

-Know what others need/want.

-People you don’t know share deep stuff about themselves with you

-People who love me should already know what I need

-Need to be acknowledged and appreciated for contributions

-More comfortable giving than receiving 

-Like home to feel safe and welcoming for family and others

-Care great deal what people think of me

-Want others to think I love everyone even though I don’t

-When those who love me do something unexpected, I love it

-When others ask for help, it makes me feel valuable

-When asked what’s needed, I have no idea how to answer

-When tired, I often feel I am taken for granted

-Emotions can feel over the top

-Feel angry and conflicted when my needs conflict with others

?? It's hard to watch movies... find it unbearable to watch people suffer....worry a lot about being forgiven when making mistakes

Healthy twos:
Name own needs and feelings without losing relationships
Love well and care for others
Have appropriate boundaries
Create a comfortable and safe space to others
Loving and lovable
Aware of true self

-Most caring, kind, upbeat, tender hearted people on earth. 

-Radiate love and spirit

-First responders and last to leave.

?? Most sensitive to criticism.

 
-Need to be needed. 

-Present a cheerful/likable image for others to like them

-Words of affirmation are important

-Pride is deadly sin and lingers in shadows of our hearts.

-Give impression they don’t have needs of their own.

-People would be lost without me

-Hard not to give payback when I know what others need

-Can’t imagine asking others to lend me a hand

-Rarely ask for help and don’t know how to receive it

-Inflated view of power, independence and value of others 

-Twos fear that acknowledging their needs would end in fear and shame and humiliation - Not always conscious of it however. 

-Want love, appreciation and attention without having to ask for it

-Touchy feely galore!!!

-Twos are always washing dishes, scrubbing floor, doing things every second. Self sacrificing. Must recharge at some point though.

-Afraid people will ditch them when they can stand on their feet. Once done needing me, they will be gone.

-Twos don’t have to be needed but need to be wanted.

-Sense what others are feeling.  Average twos have ability to sense and help others. Don’t have to tell them, they just know. 

-Self worth relies on gratitude and appreciation from giving to others. A burnt out two may have an outburst when feeling like taken for granted. 

-Warm and generous.

-Aware of everyone’s feelings. Never assume that they know their own needs. Press them to figure out their own needs.  They will be sensitive or emotional.

Relationships:
Mean EVERYTHING to them
Most interpersonal
Touchy feely
Easily move toward people

Work:
Play second in command
Happy to have power behind the throne
Interpersonal skills
Extroverts
Build community by remembering things
Optimistic
Too much criticism will crush them

Wing: 1

servant
Doing things properly
Dependable
Responsible
More aware of emotional needs
Less trusting
Expect a bit more in return